What are you talking about?
Just because we spend time on these forums automatically means we have no life? Lasers are our hobby and this is the place to meet new people, expand our hobby and become more educated in what we love.
Why are you apologizing about *not being popular*? You brought it on yourself, you posted one thread on a question which has been asked many times, that's fine, you will just be told to use the search bar. Nevertheless, the second thread asking exactly the same thing isn't going to make you famous around here and will automatically make people somewhat fustrated.
May I also add you sent me a totally useless PM with the exact same information you wrote in the OP.