I'd get this: LZCB - 650nm 200mW Water Proof Red Laser Pointer
and a pair of red safety goggles. Only suggesting lazerer because I've read about O-like's recent poor customer service now-and-then.
I was using these glasses myself when playing around with my 1.3W 445nm and I could barely even see the focused dot, let alone the light surrounding it.
Cuz dey hoes.
But seriously, if you have a girl who constantly shows off her curves and does that passive squeal...
And also I think Dave's scientific perspectives on this topic are great.
It's happening with lazerer now?
And I'm sorry you had to go through with all that, but from what I know even when it doesn't come to lasers most overseas Asian companies will screw you over via nonexistent "cheaper shipping".
That post was some A grade comedy.
But yes, infrared is as dangerous if not more than other lasers... please find appropriate goggles and take regular safety precautions for yourself and those around you.